Have you ever felt ashamed or embarrassed of your sexual desires, experiences, or history? Chances are, you have, and maybe you’ve been grappling with what’s a “normal” amount of discomfort or shame to feel surrounding the topic of sex. If that’s the case, you’re not alone. It’s not unlikely to have feelings of shame arise […]

Often mislabeled as “erectile dysfunction,” erectile disappointment is a common experience for individuals with penises. Whether it’s the inability to attain or maintain an erection sufficient for penetration, this issue can be accompanied by feelings of shame, anxiety, and the pressure to perform. However, it’s essential to recognize that experiencing difficulties with erections is a […]

In case you haven’t heard the news, our Sex Therapist Hotline is officially open for business! The hotline is a 100% anonymous form where you can ask all of the sex questions you’ve been curious about but too afraid to ask. GETSOME founder and ASTO-certified sex therapist Michelle Fischler will answer your question here on […]

Here at GETSOME, conversations about sex, shame, and addiction aren’t uncommon. That’s because the three factors combined can feed into one another and lead to detrimental mental and physical health issues. “Sex Addiction” is a term that gets thrown around a lot in our culture, often in reference to a person with a very high […]

Conversations and curiosities surrounding sex, sexuality, and pleasure often have a little bit of a secretive air about them. No matter how much work you’ve put into becoming sexually liberated and open minded yourself, there’s still a societal stigma surrounding sex that often keeps us from asking our questions out loud. But being curious about […]

Sometimes it feels like everyone you know who isn’t in a monogamous relationship is hooking up with people that they meet at the bar, the club, or on a dating app. In fact, every potential match on dating apps these days feels like they’re “just looking for something casual.” If you’re single and looking for […]